
The development of addiction to the emotional and any other addiction occurs during infancy, aged from one month to one and a half years. During this period, the child forms a view on how to put together and will be arranged in the future of its interaction with the outside world. He formed an idea of whether or not to hear his world (at that time in the face of moms and dads) or not, whether he satisfies his need for security, nutrition, bodily comfort, communication, acceptance, love, or does not meet, and if satisfied, then to what extent. Violations of the time produces in a person a feeling of “hunger” for relations, for love, for kindness, for emotional and physical intimacy. Such a person is in a constant search for the “perfect parent” – a man who would compensate him what he once received less (unconditional love, unconditional acceptance, reading his needs without of talking about them out loud, immediate satisfaction of their needs) and to saturate it with their love.
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