To begin with, the first date is a completely normal process, and the first thing you need to do is to calm down and relax. You do not have to choose for two hours which shirt to wear, do not invent what flowers to give, how and what you will say. Understand, if the lady goes on a date, then she is already interested in you, so relax.

What to do on a date? First, you need to start from a place, it must be intimate so that there are no unnecessary eyes. It means that you need to choose a place somewhere in the corner of a cafe, maybe in a VIP booth or that you will have a wall behind you. There must be sofas and you need to sit next to her! Secondly, the place should be without loud music and a bright blinding set. And one more thing, it is desirable that you feel comfortable in this place.

As for communication, it has to be constantly alternate. First, you tell something about yourself, then you ask your lady about her life. During communication, you should show as much as possible that everything is cool and everything is fine in life. You show that only you are responsible for your entire life. You need to tell her stories that somehow PR you in her eyes and increase your importance. Stories have to show her all your positive qualities. For example, you start to talk that she looks like her grandmother, and you tell to her – “By the way, I recently transferred on my hands one old lady across the road to the red light because the traffic light was broken.” Just tell it with lots of details, because girls like this. From your story she will understand that you are strong because you transferred her on hands, that you are brave and resolute because you were going on red light, and that you are noble and kind.

Your task is to interest her and to inspire confidence. For interest there is still a buildup of emotions. That is, the girl should look at you with open mouth. You need to tell her something terrible, then something funny and then sometimes sad. And she will experience a different polarity of emotions.

If you are in a stupor for a minute and do not know what to tell your lady, then just take her hand and start describing what her hands are, what skin, what beautiful nails, that she has thin and long fingers. Probably she was fond of music or played in her childhood on the piano. Tell her that she has very interesting lines on her palms. In general, you touch and describe your feelings.

So, the most important thing on any date is to be yourself, to be completely relaxed and to catch a sense of your own comfort, if you feel comfortable, then the lady next to you will be fine too.

Good luck!