Visiting International Dating Sites, you can find there many incredibly beautiful Slavic ladies that are seeking a foreigner. You will definitely ask yourself, why do they do it?
Such young and unique beauties, smart and feminine! Are they real? Isn’t it a cheating?! Do they really want to meet a foreigner? Why can’t they find their happiness in their native land?
The source of this problem lies in difficulty of gender relationship that was formed in post-soviet countries. Severities of post-WWII, period of stagnation and “perestroika”, harsh life in 1990s were hard for soviet and post-soviet families. Millions of young and healthy men were killed in war; the others were destroyed of repressive machine; the others worked too hard trying to take care of their family and lost their health (or became addicted to alcohol) and died too early because of that.
The lack of men drastically changed gender relations in society. Many Russian and Ukrainian men ceased to value their women, their character, their attention, their appearance, their shape. They ceased to help them to educate children or to keep house. Many women were forced to shoulder all the responsibility of their family.
At the same time new generation grew up. Many young Russian or Ukrainian men are sure that woman is the only “keeper of family hearth” so the most of them look for a “perfect woman”, their “younger mommy”, an unique beauty with ideal forms, who will be perfect in everything and will take care of them for a lifetime. On the other hand, most of these men are exceptionally indulgent to themselves: they usually do not take care of their appearance, do not keep fit, do not try to take responsibility for their family etc.
Russian and Ukrainian women accustomed to take care of their beauty and shape, to use make up and to choose their clothes thoroughly in a contest for attention of worthy men. This is the reason why Slavic men often perceive female beauty as the normal state of the things and do not value it. Moreover, today Russian and Ukrainian men demand more and more: women that don’t meet the smallest requirement, often do not have any chance to find a man in their native country. She is a little curvy or she has a child, she can’t cook or she’d like to make a career, she expects that a man will do some housework or she is “too smart” or even “too beautiful” – even one of these factors can become a big trouble for Ukrainian woman that wants to find a happiness with a Slavic man.
This is why some of these ladies are disappointed. They just understood they will never be “perfect enough” for the most of Slavic men. The other Ukrainian ladies make their career and rise their children so they simply do not have enough time for their private life and search for a man in reality.
On the other hand, Ukrainian ladies often notice that foreign men, as a matter of fact, are more sincere, romantic and open-hearted than the most of Russian or Ukrainian men. Foreigners know that both of the spouses are responsible for their family and are ready to work for mutual understanding and happiness. They perceive that real people can not be perfect in everything and do not expect this from their future wife but value her beauty and her self-cultivation. Moreover, foreign men are ready to change themselves in the name of their love. And Slavic women appreciate it.
So, why these beauties are here, on Step2Love? You know why. They just want to be happy.