All of us would like to be happy. Somebody thinks that happiness is in wealth or in luxury car, in youth and beauty or in health. Someone supposes that happiness is something that comes suddenly; but there are people who tend to believe that happiness is a choosen way of life. They say, happy people have a lot in common. For example, a few things they do not believe to.
Suffering is bad. Some people understand that suffering is an inherent part of our life and all of us feel it from time to time and it’s normal. Just don’t focus on suffering, pay more attention to pleasant things.
Life is equitable. No, it’s not! Yes, all people have equal human rights, but in fact they do not born in equal conditions. Sometimes we can take pains and achieve success but sometimes everything goes wrong in spite of all our efforts. Happy people just know that life isn’t fair and accept it.
I control everything. No, you don’t, even if it seems so. Nobody knows what can happen tomorrow or even in a few minutes. Sometimes we can’t control our life and happy people tend to believe that some unpredictability of our life makes it more interesting.
I can’t. Actually, how do you know if you didn’t try? If you sincerely believe that you can not – yes, you can not, thanks to this your belief. And this is the only thing that hinders you to do impossible things!
Nobody loves me. You know that it’s not true. At least you have friends and relatives that value you and love you. And if you have a special lady at Step2Love, you have another person who always waits for you here and is ready to support you if needed. Happy people know they are not alone in the world!
People must love me in a way I want. If your happiness depend on love of other people, you’ll never be happy. In Ukraine it’s said: “You’re not a 100 bucks to be liked by everybody”. Just accept that some people around will never like you in a way you want and it is not a tragedy.
Happiness? It doesn’t matter. In fact, your happiness is the only thing that should be important for you. If something doesn’t make you happy – yes, this thing doesn’t matter.
It’s too late. It’s never too late to find your happiness, no matter how old you are and when you’ll feel it. Just remember: you may always become a happy man! For example, with one of Slavic beauties from Step2Love!