Sometimes Ukrainian ladies don’t want to continue communication with a men after the first date. Why? The reason why is that sometimes men choose some incongruous topics to their talks with a lady.
There are a few risky topics that would be better to avoid at your first date.
Health. If you have some troubles with your health, this is definitely not the best topic to discuss it at the date, especially in a restaurant. You will not look like a hero telling her about your valiant fight with your illnesses. You will look like a very decrepit old man.
Abstruse words and phrases. This is a date, not a colloquium, you don’t need to demonstrate your knowledges. Furthermore, your lady may have bad English skills so the more sophisticated is your conversation – the less she understands you.
Your ex. It is considered bad manners to tell about your ex at the first date. Your lady should be sure that you left your past in the past and you are ready to the new harmonious and healthy relationship.
Sports. Some ladies love to go in for sports and some even like to watch sports competitions. But most of them don’t like to discuss such things. Indeed, you will not be happy to discuss her yesterday’s shopping! So leave sports topics for a party with your friends.
Fails in your travels. If this is not a fascinating and humorous story, your lady will be bored. And you will not be happy to hear such another story from her. And your date will become another fail for both of you.
Your daily routines. This is really boring even to you, isn’t it? To detect some funny things in your everyday life you should know each other very well. That’s why this is a bad subject for the first date.
Unacquainted people. If you want to ruin your future relationship, tell her about your friends and acquaintances. She have never met any of them so she will estimate your nature by your attitude to your friends.
Cars. Don’t discuss any men’s toys while you’re not close enough. Every woman finds them boring.
Your pets. If this is not your common interest, don’t pay too much attention to talks about your pet. Otherwise she’ll decide that you’re unsociable person who can communicate with animals only.
Sex. Yes, you are adults and may discuss such things without embarrassment. But this is a very bad subject for a first date, especially if you’d like to prove your serious intentions.