The Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella, Snow White… There is a happy end in all of these fairy tales. In the end beautiful lady meets her fairy prince, they get married and that’s all. All these heroes become happy. Everyone of us knows these stories since the childhood. But does it weighs with our ideas about true love, relationship and happiness?
It is difficult to imagine childhood without tales. We all know them and love them. But what image of real life do they form? Good always triumphs over evil, prince and beauty got married and lived happily ever after. Great story! But does it match to reality?
Let’s imagine, one day you meet your real love and soul mate, your beautiful beloved Ukrainian lady and marry. Does it mean that with a wave of a magic wand you will live together happily? Does it mean that all the couples live really happily after their marriage? Can all people create their happiness as easily as fairy-tale characters? And if yes, why are there so many unhappy couples around us?
Mutual and sincere love makes us stronger and healthier. While we are happy together we can easier pass through joys and sorrows. According to statistics, married people, as a rule, live longer than lonely ones. And according to the fairy tales, the only difficulty in our life is to find a true love. But none of tales tells us how to keep our love for years, what to do to live “happily ever after”. We don’t know what heroes did to become happy. Unfortunately, the fairy tale ends at this unknown moment.
Is it possible to live happily in a real life? Yes, psychologists believe so. They can give us some advice to make our life happy.
Do not expect too much of your beloved lady. Be a realist, don’t ask your lady to do impracticable things. Discuss together what you like in your relationship and what things you’d like to improve. Don’t be afraid of disputes, they develop your ability to solve the problems.
Everybody has his own flaws. Just accept the flaws of your beloved woman as well as your own ones, with humor, understanding and patience, and it will make your life easier and more pleasant. It is very important to have mutual interests and hobbies, thanks to that you’ll have a lot of common topics to discuss. After all it’s said that a happy marriage is a long talk that always seems too short.
And finally, you should never stop to work on your relationship together. Surprise your beloved lady, make her gifts without special occasion, support each other. And you’ll get a chance to make your real relationship harmonious and live with your beloved woman “happily ever after”!