Lonely people, especially those who have been without a partner for really long period of time due to different circumstances, feel very unsure about new relationship. There are so many “what if”s appearing, that they may lose their head and simply refuse from their happiness instead of letting everything be and bringing them joy. So, there are several aspects that should be considered when you have finally found a person who seems to be suitable for you.

First of all, do you feel comfortable with this woman? Are you sure that you will not have to hide anything from her and will simply be yourself? For example, if you start behaving absolutely untypical with your woman, this is probably the sign that you are not yourself at that moment. Of course, this may be explained by your falling in love, but what will happen, when you get used to each other and passion will not burn that much?

When you get everything about yourself, think about your future partner. Do you accept every trait of her character? Do you agree with her views on life? Are you satisfied with the fact that this very person has chosen you? And what is the most important – do you want to be with her because of love or just to get rid of your loneliness? As the last variant may make both of your unhappy.

As it was already said, you should also have mutual understanding. Being together for more than a few months means that you will have to live together, build a family and solve different everyday problems. This requires collaboration and helping each other.

Sometimes people meet such problem that they can’t tell about their feelings to their partner. For example, when one is dissatisfied with some aspect of mutual life, he or she may keep silent instead of talking on the topic. Do you feel that you are ready to discuss everything with your beloved woman?

Trust is not less important in relationship. You should be ready to open yourself to a lady you have chosen. In addition, you will have to learn to trust her back and to believe her words. Even if it comes to some conflicts, try to be calm and not to offend her.

Being together is really worth spending time and putting efforts, as two people will cope with all difficulties easier than a single person.