When you finally manage to meet a person you truly love, you would one day want to make some more serious step than just dating. Living together is surely great. However, official variant will unite your hearts for many many years, so you will have to make a proposal. This thrilling and sometimes scary step requires some preparations. It is too serious to do everything irresponsibly.

First of all, don’t forget that this is for a really long time. There is no need in making proposal when you, for example, separate quite often and then get back together. This will only be traumatic for you both. Besides, you must be sure that you have been together for quite long period of time. Love grows with time and needs it to understand that everything is serious between you two. Besides, you need to have similar values and wishes, for example, to travel or to have children.

After coming to a conclusion that you are really both ready for engagement, you need to choose the best ring she will like. Probably, she will tell you herself which one she likes or will show you one is some magazine. You may also walk with her near a jewelry shop. She will definitely want to come in and will tell you everything about her preferences. Don’t forget to measure the size of her finger or the purchased ring may be either too big and will fall down or will be too small and she will not manage to put it on, feeling completely upset. This can be done by simply taking one of the rings she usually wears.

Choose the correct time for making a proposal. Of course, she will be shocked with it, but try to make it so that she would slightly understand that you are going to do something like that quite soon. Yet, don’t tell her the exact date, so she will surely be waiting for such occasion.

Think about the place where you would like to propose her. This can be something romantic, like a restaurant with a musician playing just for you two. On the other hand, if she doesn’t like other people watching your relationship, you can simply do this at home but preparing a great supper and lighting candles. You can even ride somewhere on a trip and offer her to become her wife under the stars out of the city. Just make it so pleasant that she would always remember this moment with happy emotions.

The only thing left is just to tell her that you want to have her as a wife. Be calm and tell that you appreciate your relations and think that she is the best person to spend the whole life with. Be sure that she will not refuse you, and you will be happy together for many decades.