The first date is the responsible event. It is necessary to make a good impression. Otherwise, this first date will be the last one. Everyone has their own ways to express themselves, but who can guarantee that they are correct? Psychologists have analyzed the most common mistakes that people make during their first meetings with a potential partner. They distinguished 10 things which man shouldn’t do on the first date. Do you agree with them?
1.Don’t be late
If a woman makes you wait, she is not late. Woman can afford herself to be late for 10-15 minutes. But if a man is late for the same time, he will be non-punctual. It will be better to call a woman and tell her that you are late and ask for waiting. It is very important for women to know that you are able to plan your time.
2. Have a plan!
The last thing that a woman wants to hear when she comes to a meeting is “Where do you want to go?” or “What will we do today?” So, it is usual that the obligation of entertainment (at least in the context of the first dating) hangs upon man’s sleeve.
3.Don’t order the chicken wings, ribs and other “sloppy” food
Usually women have great manicure and make-up. She spent a lot of time for making all this for you. She wanted to be good-looking and it would be so uncomfortable for her to eat such dishes. And don’t forget, you don’t know woman so well for now, she can be a vegetarian.
4.Don’t speak only about yourself
Even if a woman asks many questions, it is necessary to manage to steer the conversation in the opposite direction. It will be much more pleasant to show your interest to woman. But in general, it is better to talk about something neutral and mutually interesting.
5.Don’t reminisce your ex-girlfriend
In fact, almost two-thirds of men and women begin to discuss their former on the first date. But this issue is not interesting and even can be offensive. If you start talking about your former partner, be ready that your meeting will be failed.
6.Don’t complain
Don’t tell about money and bad job, about crazy boss and problems with your health. You can tell all this information to woman, but when you know her better and longer. On the first dating you have to be cheerful and relaxing. Don’t startle her.
7.Don’t be on the phone all the time
Turn off the phone for dinner. If you do this, woman will understand that you are interested in your meeting more than in your business.
8. Don’t criticize
Even if she listen to music which you don’t like or if she goes to night clubs, you shouldn’t criticize her. You need the first date for evaluating the person who is sitting opposite to you. Listen, observe, make conclusions.
9. Don’t drink a lot of alcohol
I don’t write here a lot of about this action) You understand everything by yourself.
10. Call back after dating
You’ll be surprised, but many girls after coming home after date don’t know the answer for the most important question. Did he like me? So, if you like a girl, call her and tell this. She will be happy )