There is a myth about love at the first sight, but in fact it has nothing to do with reality. Seeing a person only once, you fall in love not with himself, but with a certain set of external features, that is, you like his physique, gestures, reactions. Many people even at closer inspection remain a mystery.
Many of them are only a mask that makes them to introduce to others as they really are not. Often falling in love with themselves embellish what they know about the person, after falling in love – a kind of brain fog. When a person falls in love, the reality of it is changed to the model that he himself likes. And often no amount of persuasion and dissuasion from relatives and friends do not help to return elated emotions from heaven to earth.
First love, or rather to say the first falling in love, sung in many songs and poems. But, alas, no one makes a footnote that the so-called “first love” is often nothing more than a desire, it is the force that the man is not yet familiar. And because very often you can find the emphasis on the “All you need is Love” and stuff like that, the person automatically begins to chase after what is said, it is so necessary. In fact, doing so is not necessary, because as the saying goes’ haste is good only when catching fleas. ”
Falling in love is a feature to pass very quickly. The main problem in this situation is not the fact that the novel itself is over, but that is very difficult to understand at once all illusions of falsity. This feeling can be compared with a situation where you have promised to present a gift limousine, but in the end gave the scooter.
This “fake” love can last longer and softer end to the psyche that if people maintain sexual contact. In this case, the relationship continues because two people are just good in bed.
Well, what is that same love as her learn? It can be said that true love – a kind of a form of intellectual functions of the brain development. In other words, there is a lot of evidence to suggest that a person who has not attained a certain level of psychological development, simply can not experience love. If even easier – it is necessary to realize a lot of things, to understand why they are needed and whether it is necessary to create a strong and long relationship.
True love – the feeling of a much more meaningful. When a man loves, his approach to life becomes much more reasonable and logical. As a mature sense of love will not push you into action rashly. But all of the above with regards to love, does not mean that your relationship will be devoid of romance. It just will not be immediate.
It is believed that love grows out of love. This is a very rare case, because love and falling in love – two distinct senses.
Love does not imply a system of selfishness or “give-to-let.” Love – is a kind of sacrifice that you bring to the benefit of you and your partner. And to sacrifice something, you have to learn to think not only about themselves.
As for sex, sex between people who love each other – it is much more than physical pleasure. This is one way to express your feelings to the person in yet another embodiment.
So do not seek to experience love as quickly as possible.
And again, remember what wrote the great Antoine de Saint-Exupery – “sharp-sighted alone the heart of the main invisible to the eye.”