Quite often, you can hear the words “real man ”in the women’s conversation. Even men use this phrase when they want to say about right man in family, with friends and so on.
Both men and women are talking about the same type of men: they behave correctly in terms of moral and ethical standards, they are commitment. Such men love and appreciate their families, they have respect for their promises.
Of course, there is no specific definition of the term «real man», but in this article we try to denote seven basic traits that every “real man” should have:
1. Real man is polite and respectful.
Every man should be polite, because this is the first trait that women see in him.
2. The man must control himself and control his emotions.
Everyone knows that women are much more emotional than men, because they follow their feelings, thats why lady can arrange a tantrum, cry, go shopping the whole day, complain to girlfriends. But if the man begins to treat himself with alcohol and to have sex with anyone, it is unlikely can be called as “real man”.
3. The man is able to control his libido.
It is not so clever for man to risk his relationship with the beloved woman, succumbed to a momentary weakness. By the way the real man will not go to another woman , using the fact that having sex with his wife or girlfriend became boring and lost its passion. For sure such man will add something fresh in making love! So just turn your imagination.
4. Real man can patiently wait for his special beloved one.
Of course a lot of free women want to have a man next to them, some of them are ready to do everything for it, even sleep with you. But you are not public place for resting, don’t spend time with everyone, try to find a lady with whom you want to speak after sex.
5. The real man does not raise his self-esteem at sexual victories expense.
The lists of sexual partners, bragging, stories about having sex in different places with a lot of women- it’s so unworthily. Think first then tell.
6. The man does not believe that sex is the main thing in life.
Nobody says that making love is bad thing. No , it is not. It is amazing and of course it can be called as one of the most pleasant things in life if it is with the beloved one, but it is not the sense of life.
Physical satisfaction is important, but the dependence on it makes a man as an animal. We are humans and we have feelings, the brain and heart, so use it for making the right decision. You should know how to say NO to your desire. Sometimes it is very needed.
7. The real man never hurts his lady.
It is very important to know that your lady is proud of you, to be with you. Every man should know some golden rules : you can neither hurt your woman nor shout at her, you can forget about betrayal and physical violence. You are a MAN!
8. And the last one, maybe is a little sad thing.
If you feel that you don’t have feelings to your couple anymore, don’t be afraid to say about it.
Many years or even decades lead a double life, and torturing his wife and mistress. But once is enough courage to decide who you really roads.
10 signs, which can accurately determine unreal man:
To distinguish a fake (and the things and people) from the treasures of the layman is hard enough. But buying fake brands, fake antiques and choosing fake men as partners in life, we get frustrated, from which it is difficult to recover.
Do not get fooled by the cheap stuff and then get a chance to be much less fake!
1. His narcissism is visible to the naked eye.
2. He does not know the other pronouns other than “I”.
3. He does not hesitate to consider the other women in your presence, and even – to comment on their charms.
4. It behaves hamovato towards others.
5. It does not foul language, he speaks it.
6. Shouting for nothing for him – the norm.
7. He does not hesitate to tell you about my ex.
8. It is not inattentive to you and idea what it means to “take care”.
9. It is not only not afraid to hurt you, he strikes with particular relish.
10. Next to it you do not feel like a real woman.