We all may face such a problem that we need to start something, and this is really important for us, but for some reason we can’t. We start delaying the start for some “special day” or until “some omen comes” and as a result still remain at the same place. For example, people tend to decide start losing weight from the beginning of the next month, but when it comes – immediately give up and postpone for the next month. Or we set ourselves a goal to find the new job in the new year, but in January we think that it is so hard to get it, and what if we don’t succeed and lose everything and so on, and finally remain where we have been before.
First of all, if you really decided that you need to start something, think twice if this is really important for you. Do you want this? Or this is just an idea that ran through your mind? Or you simply heard this from someone else and decided that you need this too? Maybe you are the one who actually doesn’t need this, and your subconscious whispers you this making you postpone the beginning.
Of course, the certain date of the beginning is important. But no one makes you choose it! If your beginning is important for you, start it the day the idea came to your head while you have inspiration! When you see the first results at once, later it will be easier for you to continue, and the will to do something will give you powerful push for the first time.
If you feel that you are unable to start something, this may be due to the fact that you don’t know how to do this. If you have a lack of information, don’t be afraid to refer to those who is aware of this sphere. Besides, you can always check data on the Internet. There are probably lots of useful pieces of advice there from people who once began just like you. In addition, you may find a group of people who will be glad to support you, as in any sphere there are friendly people who know how hard it is to start.
If this didn’t help you, think about the profits of your new beginning. Surely, some bad possibilities may blur your mind and scare you, but you should always think positive. If you expect something good from your beginning, it will bring you only good, but if you are sure that something bad will happen, you will never reach success no matter how much efforts you put to this stuff.
Finally, find someone close to you and offer to start something together. If you lack powers for some reasons or wish, you will always get support from the second person who is connected with the same occupation with you. Besides, you will simply feel ashamed that he or she keeps doing this and you are trying to avoid it in all possible ways.
There is also a point of visiting a psychologist if you feel that you can’t start completely anything. Maybe you have some problem that only a doctor can help you to deal with. You should never be afraid of referring to the specialist if you face something you can’t deal alone.