Sometimes we ask women why they need men. Or appeal to men: why do they need a woman? This simple question is often puzzling. The most frequent response – for sex. But it is somehow sad that our necessity to each other is only in this. The difference between men and women is not in the psychology. We have different nature. A man and a woman – are two kinds of people. And what are the differences between them?
For a man, it is important to know that a woman will never belong to him. It belongs to nature, and if it nature of the world created by man, it does not, then it can go to another place. In the East there is a saying: “The woman like a bird – flew, lived and can fly farther.”
Therefore, for a woman in a relationship with a man it is important to differentiate between the following. A man can be considered as a species (appearance, temperament and so on). And as a builder of a certain socio-psychological world in which she will live. Sometimes it is not the same: a man a woman in itself attracts, but to live in his world, he can’t. This situation is not easy for a woman. It is a natural, organic, being not able to live in a world that did not suit her. compromise cases (for example, for the sake of material conditions) lead to all sorts of somatic disorders.
The woman, it is natural. She becomes a woman at birth. Even a little girl already knows how to flirt. In the future, it will only reveal the nature of her femininity. The man has a different path. Since the male develops through social, the only man to become man to master social. This leads to uneven development of male and female. For example, a woman in twenty years largely already reveals her femininity, and her feast day is completed, and the man only stands in the way of development of masculinity. Alignment occurs closer to forty. This mismatch leads to the fact that in this period, from twenty to forty years, there are conflicts associated with this feature of their development. A man needs a holiday, as it requires energy for the social, and the woman a holiday was already twenty years old, it needs a rest.
If we return to the question of why we need the answer lies in the fact that we have different strong points. The strong woman’s place – a natural component. Due to the fact that a woman is responsible for the reproduction of the natural reserve of strength in women is many times greater than that of men. In men, the potential of natural energy is much lower, but their strong point lies in the structuring, establishment of social reality. It is in this, we can complement and reinforce each other. Man starts normally treat a woman when he realizes that he lacks spontaneity, and a woman to a man – when he realizes that it lacks the structure and the social literacy. That’s when they begin to complement each other, and the more, the tastier will be their life. Figuratively speaking, a woman – the air for a man like trees – the lungs of the planet. What is a woman with a man, so the air he breathes.