To Be or Not to Be… Honest

Everyone around is talking about the great role of trust in relationship. In addition, if you have experienced real long-term love at least once, you surely know that strong relations require lots and lots of everyday work, as it is only fairy-tales which claim that love just comes and stays. It includes great variety of issues which may bring undesirable conflicts and spoil relationship even with the calmest and the most beautiful Slavic lady you’ve chosen to communicate with. So, even trust, which should be always present, may cause difficulties too.Despite the fact that trust is told to be obligatory, you surely sometimes feel that you can’t tell completely everything to your beloved half. This may be caused by various reasons. For example, you may be afraid of a possible negative reaction on a flaw you’ve made. Or you have previously experienced bad or unpleasant consequences after being absolutely honest with people around you. There is even a  joke that if you are always honest, people will stop talking to you. Yet, this is surely not about your beloved Ukrainian or Russian woman.

You should always remember that your partner is a person, whom you can trust. This is the main reason which allows you to be honest with your Slavic woman. She is the only one with whom you don’t need to wear masks and whom you can show everything what you have inside yourself. This is a person who will probably spend the rest of her life with you. On the other hand, if she can’t accept your honesty, this may be the wrong person, and this happens often with many people, so you shouldn’t become too upset, as there is surely that very woman somewhere who will understand you.

You should never forget that lie is a complex phenomenon which always comes out and becomes evident. Remember how in childhood your mother understood each time you tried to tell not truth, as you made mistakes in your story which she noticed? In adult life everything is just the same. You will not manage to keep in mind your false-story forever, and one day something will not fit, as lie is not your real memory of any event, and your mind will replace it sooner or later with some small details.

Lying to your partner also means that you disrespect her. Think it over: would you like to happen to be in such situation? Of course you wouldn’t. So, show respect to your Russian lady and try to learn how to be honest with her. Besides, you will feel yourself much better not having such load of lies on your shoulders. As a result, you will simply become a really good partner. Everyone values trust and honesty in relations. Women always feel such things. They know that honesty deepens your relationship and broadens it, making you much closer than ever.

When you confide on your beloved woman, she will answer you the same way. Ladies are tender creatures and they need someone to know their real soul and feelings. So, being honest with her, you will have the same honesty back. And there is no other way perfect relations can go and exist.

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