Love is a great feeling, but only when you keep it just inside yourself. When you start sharing it with someone, it turnes that you have to do lots of things to keep it working and bringing joy not only to you but also to your partner, or this won’t be love anymore. But there are some moments which should always be kept in your mind, as they are the pillars of strong relations and avoiding them is the biggest mistake you can make.
You should define passion and true love. Usually, at the beginning of relationships people feel passion, and some of them take it for real long-lasting feelings which can become the base of their life. But as time passes, passion subsides and it turnes out that there is actually no real love. So, being interested in a Russian lady is surely great, but listen attentively to your feelings: is this really love that warms your heart?
Don’t give up taking care of your relationships. Imagine that this is your favourite garden. You can’t leave it for a long time, as it will become filled with weeds and all beautiful plants will die. The same is this relations. As soom as some small weed tries to appear, you need to fight with it immediately and not to pretend that it doesn’t exist not to receive the snowball effect.
If you want to make your relations last long, don’t forget to spend time together. Not just in the circle of relatives, friends or children, but only with each other. And this timespending shouldn’t include just sitting and watching TV. It is better to go out somewhere or find an occupation which will fit both of you. Such moments make you feel closer to each other, and even labor in the garden can make you feel united.
On the other hand, there is a need to spend some time separately. Everyone deserves to have his or her own interests and to have some privacy just to think everything over or to have a rest. This doesn’t mean that love has become smaller if you need something like that. This is just a need for everyone.
If your partner irritates you, calm down and think with your mind, not with nerves. Try to understand what is the reason of such situation. Probably you will understand that this is because you are simply different. But on the other hand, your differences complemend each other, and as a result you feel great beeing with each other, despite the fact that sometimes you may have quarrels because of different views on life.
Do not try to make your beloved woman change completely. Each person is unique, and this will not be possible. On the other hand, try to give her everything she needs in relations, and she will do the same back to you. As a result, you will both be happy without any changes, and your love will make everyone around feel envy.