It is widely thought that it is always difficult to have long-distance relationship. The only thing you want every day is to be side by side with your beloved but the circumstances, seems, are against both of you. Yes, long distance is never easy.
You live in different countries or even at different continents and there is no way to change something in a couple of days. Nevertheless there are a few ways to improve your relationship with no reference to how far you are.
Communicate with your Ukrainian lady as often as possible. You can use different services of Step2Love: phone calls, Live Chat, regular letters, short or video messages, E-cards etc. You should keep your closeness with your beloved by all means. So share you feelings every day and keep your relationship strong.
Do something together. Talk about what are you doing right now in Live Chat or by way of short messages. Discuss what new clothes you are going to choose in a shop today or what she’s going to cook to a dinner. This is a way to stay together every day, to understand each other better.
Take misunderstanding easy. Confusion is a normal thing in long-distance relations and there is no way to avoid it. You should take into account that men and women communicate in different ways, and usual information can be taken as blame or insult. The reason why it happens is that men usually give heed to WHAT is said, and women pay attention to HOW you said it. That’s why women notice your intonation, gestures etc. and can find something offensive in the most neutral message. So firstly, think twice before sending her your message, re-read it and make sure it is clear and unambiguous enough. Secondly, be attentive to any your tiffs, the most of them usually happens because she didn’t get you right.
Don’t spy on each other in the internet. Anyways most likely you will find nothing. But this is definitely the best way to damage or even to destroy your relationship. Suspicions and doubts gather like a snowball and you don’t have any way to solve this problem with a real meeting. So it is better learn to trust each other.
Make surprises and send her little gifts. No matter how far you are, you can surprise her with a bouquet of flowers or with a gift. She will feel herself the happiest lady in the world while receiving the luxurious bouquet of flowers!
Yes, it is difficult to build and keep strong long-distance relationship. But it is possible! Pay attention to each other and make your love real with Step2love!