Marriage and Friendship

It is often said that there is no friendship possible between a man and a woman. Yet, there are lots of proofs that families based on friendship or where this feeling is just present are much more firm than those built only on pure love. No matter how sad this sounds, but love reduces sooner or later and there is only habit left which may even lead to separation, while friendship is really hard to be destroyed, as it is based on similarities between you, understanding and common sides of characters. It’s like love with mind rather than with heart. And presence of friendship in your relationship will surely make it only better.If there is friendship present, you will never feel bored with each other. Having fun together is always great, even when you become married. Despite the fact that you will have lots of domestic duties and tasks, it will be more interesting to cope with everything together with your friend.

Sometimes, quarrels happen. And they usually make all positive feelings reduce at no time. Friendship is something that won’t disappear because of some small and insignificant disagreement. Besides, your friend always supports you, so probably those quarrels will happen much less often than they could have.

Friend is someone who will always be on your side no matter what happens, of course, if this is true friend. So, you may not be afraid that in case of some difficulties your spouse will diffuse in air leaving you coping with everything on your own. A friend will always lend you a shoulder.

Another great feature of any friend that you surely know this person very well. You know all habits, peculiarities and character traits, so you feel more comfortable knowing how to behave and to please your beloved person.

Living with a friend is just better. You feel more confident, and each day seems to be brighter. People tend to lean to someone, and this can’t be without a reason. If you try, you will fee the difference. In any case, it is not too hard to make friends with a person you are already married to. Besides, a friend makes you fell yourself like home no matter where you are and what kind of life you lead. Not any event will manage to split you apart or ruin your relations, and this allows to feel yourself safe and protected.

The final reason for having a friend as your spouse is that in this way you feel really complete, like you have found your truly second half, as this condition can be obtained only when you both reach the maximum level of mutual understanding and trust, and this is almost impossible without friendship.

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