Nowadays lots of people prefer to create and develop their financial life in favor of love and creation of family. They spend their life running after some material benefits, but sooner or later it turnes out that they are completely alone in that big flats full of hi-tech stuff, and they don’t have anyone to share it with anyone. Despite the fact that someone may be afraid of building relations because of possible troubles, there are lots of benefits of being with someone rather than alone.It is not too great when you are alone, because it is hard to go out with your friends. All of them have their couples, and if you are alone, you look strange in their eyes. They communicate with each other, thay have some spare topics, they discuss their relations with each other, while you can’t support conversation and feel slightly akward and uncomfortably.
On the other hand, your friends can start feeling pity for you. This is surely irritating hearing phrases like “Oh, you are already ** years old, and you are still single and don’t have a family.” In addition, this makes you feel pity for yourself and cause stress.
Sometimes friends can start looking for a couple for you themselves thinking that they are helping. As a result, you feel just awful when you have to talk to one of their “close and really gorgeous” friends who turn to be stupid as a chicken, but you can’t get rid of this person quickly, as this will be impolite regarding all efforts of your friend. And after this you have to report on your date.
Your family may also be not too supportive. At some point they will start torturing you with constant “whens” and will also give you different daughters of their friends hoping to achieve what they, not you, want.
Some couples who have relations will roll eyes their eyes telling your dreamily that they would like to be single like you, while they are actually happy in their life and have no idea how bad you feel hearing this and would gladly switch places. You will also be pelted with questions concerning how long you are going to stay single and how can you still lead such way of life, as if this really depends only on you.
Some people truly think that this is your sincere choice. Not everyone is ready to stay alone for the whole life, and usually everyone tries to find that very person with whom one would be glad to wake up happily every morning. And I hope that one day every lonely heart will be warmed tenderly by another one.