Everyday people play roles. They wake up, put on a mask and start their life: go for a work or some club, or just to have fun. Yet, we all put those masks off when we happen to be with our close people. And not even just with friends, but with our family. But do you know that even in relationship each person should combine several vital aspects to make relations healthy and strong? Try to analyze your situation and think over: maybe you have to work on yourself a little more and to develop some sides of your personality.
The most important part of relationship is being true friends. Friend will never leave in need and will always support no matter what happens. It is always lots of fun with a friend, and you have a lot in common, you can talk for hours and to make the craziest things together. This will always keep your relationship fresh and interesting.
This may sound strange, but you need to be a personal psychologist for your beloved person. You shouldn’t always solve all her problems, but just to listen to them will usually be quite enough. Talk more, and you will have less problems and questions between each other.
Everyone gets ill, and everyone needs care in such situation. It is not said about serious trouble like appendicitis or the break of a limb, when there is a serious medical help needed, but moments when you really can take care and help your couple. For example, when your significant other has a high temperature and can’t work around the house. You will have to become a real nurse and to help as much as you can until the disease vanishes.
You can also be a teacher for your half. You both surely have lots of skills and talents which you may share with each other. Your points of views and knowledge will also do. Such exchanges will make you closer to each other.
The man’s most significant role is being a protector. Luckily, nowadays you don’t have to protect your lady from barbarians (unless you decide to have a walk and 3 AM in some dangerous district). Yet, you can always protect her from everyday troubles, stresses and overworking, even at home.
Don’t forget about cuddling. It is the basis of relationship, as you are the only one who can present such tender feelings to your beloved person, and everyone really needs them even if tries not to show.
Finally, this will not work if you don’t do everything mentioned above equally. Relations mean double co-work, so remember that you deserve not only to constantly give but also to receive.