People often are afraid of the real first date and of probable disappointment. That’s why many of them try to delay real meeting with their potential partner and soul mate, beautiful Ukrainian lady from Step2Love.

First of all, take into account that the first date is a psychological stress for both of you. So try to choose the right time for this meeting when both of you will be ready. If you think it’s time, choose a preferable season. Many ladies love spring and autumn, some others prefer summer. Discuss this in advance and schedule a date.

People created a few psychological methods to overcome timidity at the first meeting. Make use of them to bear down your embarrassment.

First method is to use standard rules of behavior in society. Polite behavior, decencies, common rules of conduct is the best way to make the first step to each other.

Use humor in any awkward condition. Good sense of humor will always help you to defuse the situation and will facilitate both of you to overcome your timidity.

Another way to make your acquaintance easier is to pretend that you’re already acquainted and knew each other since the childhood. It will be easy to do especially if you corresponded on Step2Love for a long time before your real meeting.

Don’t try to use pretended self-confidence. Because of this your behavior becomes unnatural. Your interlocutor will always feel it and can consider it as your weakness. Instead of this share your emotions, tell that you feel some embarrassment and it will help you find a common language faster.

Don’t transform your meeting into interview, asking a lot of questions. People don’t like questionings, especially with private questions. Don’t start your first real date from this. When you’ll become closer, she’ll tell you everything you want to know.

It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t ask questions at all. But your goal must be not to get to know something new about your lady, but to find a mutual interest, to find an interesting subject to discuss this evening.

If you feel it doesn’t work, don’t give up! Give a second chance to your relationship and the next time everything will be much more easier!