Strictly speaking, all people at our planet are egoists. It doesn’t mean we all are bad, this is the instinct of our self-preservation, to take care about yourself is natural. But if your ego grows too much and you do not care about people around, sooner or later your selfishness will destroy your relationship with your beautiful Slavic lady.

As compared with other couples, you have a great advantage. You are far from each other and you still have enough time to get rid of your excessive selfishness. Find your own way to do it using our advice.

Try to restrict your talks about yourself. Check your letters to your lady, if your talks about yourself, your life, dreams and desires take more than 50% of your letters, something is wrong. Try to discuss some abstract subjects or ask your lady about her day and her life without you.

Take interest in her everyday life. How is her family? What did she eat today at the lunch? How are  things going at her job? How is her studies at university? What is she going to cook to a dinner? Cheer her up if she is tired or sad, help her to have a rest.

Give her advice. If you are older than your lady, your life experience is larger. Many of her problems can be easy solved with your help. Give her a good advice! If she needs your help, try to support her and discuss the problem together. And if you see the simple way to solve it, just tell her about it! Be sure, she will appreciate your advice!

Pay attention to things that are important for your lady. What is her hobby? How does she prefer to spend her leisure time? What is her favorite book and movie? What music does she prefer? What is her favorite color? Try to remember these things, it will help you to become closer with your lady.

Be grateful to your lady. Make a practice more often say her thank you for those pleasant things that she does for you. Find new reasons for gratitude and thank her for every little trifle.

These little steps will help you reduce your selfishness and improve your relationship.