When we come on the first date, we really don’t know what to expect from another person and we try to define all possible signs of affection paying attention to movements and postures. Actually, this really can help if you simply know where to look and what to notice, as body signs are subconscious and we almost can’t control them.

Look at her position of shoulders and body. If she seems not to pay attention to you but still she shoulders are turned to you, this means that she still has something in mind about you, and you have a chance and you may keep on talking.

Together with her whole body, she may use the power of glance. For example, she may stare at you not for a while as people usually do, but for longer than several seconds. She is really concentrated on the conversation and listens to your carefully.

Try to value her smile. If she is sitting serious as at an examination, you have probably chosen the wrong tactics, and you’d better change it. If you see an open and sincere smile, this is surely a good sign.

If she crosses her hands on chest, she tries to close herself from you, she doesn’t trust you and want to create a wall. Try to help her to feel more comfortable, cheer her up or make her laugh. Laughter is your best friend in such situation, but value your jokes not to make her think that you are strange. You may also look at her feet. If her toes are pointed together, she feels unsure and a little bit shy. Remember that all shy girls are pictured right in this posture.

Women ofter curl their hair dreamingly looking into your eyes. This is one of the most romantic signs of her interest in you. She seems to be listening attentively to you but in her mind she is imagining your mutual romantic love till the end of life.

If you are sitting somewhere, for example, in a restaurant, look at the posture of her sitting.   If she it sitting with legs crossed, she is trying to protect herself from you, as well as when she is crossing her arms. Besides, if she combines both gestures, be sure – you are totally failing and will probably not manage to make your relations move further than the first date. She is simply not your partner, and there is nothing to be sad about.