It is not easy to avoid conflicts with your close people. Especially if you are lovers. Especially if you are far from each other. In such situation omissions and misunderstandings arise very often and may lead to disagreements and conflicts. Ultimately, regular conflicts can destroy even strong relations.

There are a few ways to avoid conflicts in your relationship and you may practice them with your beloved Slavic lady.

Learn how to restrain your emotions. If you fume, it’s not the best time to discuss something. Make a pause, have a rest, try to calm down and then continue your talk. If you feel that’s too difficult for you, it would be better to make an apology to her and continue the next day.

Try to avoid reproaches and accusatory tone. It will indispose your lady against you and lead her to aggression. Try to discuss your problem abstracting away from personality of your interlocutor.

Avoid generalizations like “You always do this!”. Such negative things offend your interlocutor very much and usually lead to destroying relations. Keep your dialogue within the limits of your situation, don’t turn to something else.

Take pains to find a reason of your conflict, don’t focus on the results. Find out what was the reason of your disagreement. You should discuss and solve this problem, don’t pay attention to the conflict.

Don’t talk about past. Restrict yourself within the limits of your current situation.

Show your emotions, but don’t let them to control you. Don’t blame your partner that she hurt you but tell her that you feel hurt because of this situation. Don’t hide your feelings but continue to discuss the subject of your talk.

Don’t cumulate the problems, solve them at once. If you’ll try to discuss many different disagreements at the same time, your conflict will grow to unbelievably big quarrel.

Don’t insult your partner. It hurts and she will remember this offense for a long time.

One of the most effective ways to resolve the conflict is cooperation. Open your heart and sincerely talk with the lady about everything that disturbs you. And you’ll definitely find a way to settle it!