Love is covered with mysteries and hold lots of myths in it. They were created by different people who were probably too happy or too unhappy in their relationship. As a result, someone tends to pay much attention to such mass vision of love and its different aspects even not knowing that they can be false.
Some people think that relationship is something so natural that you don’t need to do anything to keep it. But agree, you need to water a plant to make it bloom and to feed a dog well so that it doesn’t run away, and relations are much more complex phenomenon and it needs both its participants to work hard in it together.
Other people think that if the beloved person feels jealous, he or she shows affection in such a way. Actually, this is just a sign that you are not confident in yourself and your partner, or that you have a sense of possessiveness which doesn’t allow you to let other people look at your property. People don’t belong to anyone unless they are slaves, so let your partner breathe free.
If you have some really difficult problems in your relations, you shouldn’t be afraid to refer to a specialist. If your feelings are truly meaningful for you, you will agree on anything to save them, even to ask the third side for help.
There is also a myth that if everything ruins, a child will fix a problem. Believe, a child is a big responsibility which will not allow you to solve a problem but will make you live with a person to whom your feelings are vanishing, but till the end of your life you will be burdened with the idea that you have a child from a person you do not love. Better not to try to fix relations with the help of creation of another life.
Don’t be scared if you start feeling unsure about your choice. Everyone can feel this, and such situation doesn’t mean that your love is going away, this is a quite normal situation.
Finally, everyone knows that when you fall in love, you feel butterflies in your stomach. Logically, when you stop feeling them, you stop loving the person. This is not true, as in the majority of situations you go to the next stage with much deeper feelings.