Hello and nice to see you here again! How do you act on the first dating? Do you feel nervous? Or do you look very calm and quiet? Actually, the first dates are usually very interesting: you never know exactly what is behind the door. If you like what is behind it, just go through. But if you don’t? There are some typical mistakes guys usually make on their first dates. Read our tips to avoid these ones.

You should remember the most important point: you never have a second chance to make a first good impression. According to the scientists, all people usually make up their minds about the person they are talking to, between 15 up to 60 seconds. So what do we have? You have about 1 minute to make them feel comfortable.  Just with several seconds women can judge your level of success, confidence and worthiness. Then you better be prepared!

Make eye contact and keep it through all the date. You should feel yourself confident; your language should sound positive and you should feel calm. Smile! But remember – don’t sound too much. Actually, a good listener scores more points that a good talker. You should know that everyone is fond of talking about themselves. Ask her something about herself and then get ready to be a good listener. Be really interested in her answers and you shall have nothing to do more with it.

What about making a plan? Feeling nervous? Better have a plan – but never plan a date itself. You can plan how you act or behave in few various situations (let’s imagine that a cool Russian girl invites you to have a cup of coffee after your first date – would you admit it?) but planning a date is not a great idea. Don’t be predictable – predictable partners are unpleasant and boring. Dating is to be romantic! Remember – ladies want to have fun, so an unusual event will be remembered ever afterward. How to organize it? Read our next article concerning most spectacular dates!

And, of course, you should look best. Your shoes should be polished, your hair should be done and groomed, oh, and your fingernails should be clean, of course. Wear your favorite colors that fit you best. And take a handkerchief with you – it is considered to be some sort of old-fashioned gentlemanly feeling.  All ladies like this.