In modern society, life runs much faster than before, and sometimes people tend to get rid of gestures which they think can slow them down. They can eat less, sleep less, harming themselves, but they also can harm their relationships as well. This sphere of life should still be less fast than everything else, as you may pay less attention to your lady which will not allow her to feel herself a woman completely. Or you would like to support the feminist movement where women state that they can do everything as well as men, and even without them? If not, don’t forget about simple gestures which will be pleasant for your lady.
When you come to a restaurant, help your lady to take off a coat (and later to put it on). Sometimes it is really hard for a lady to do, if it is winter and clothes are really heavy. After this, move her chair so that she could sit. This doesn’t require much efforts, but you will be surprised by her positive reaction on such gesture of politeness about which many men forget.
Such simple thing as opening the door before your lady is also important. Sometimes the doors can be heavy and a lady may not cope with it. To make this gesture, you need to go before your lady so that you can open the door and let her pass by you holding it until she is out. Never open a door, go out and let the door go. It can hit a lady badly and she will be offended.
Make a phone call to your lady from time to time when you can’t see each other. Women like to talk and will be glad to hear your voice. Besides, they will appreciate that you care about them and don’t forget.
Present your lady flowers of small presents from time to time. This is not too expensive, but women really love such gesture. Of course, there are some of them who are not fond of cut flowers, but she will definitely tell you about this, so you will have an opportunity to present her live flowers which will decorate her window all year round and remind about you.
If you are using a public transport, and there is only 1 seat, give it to your lady. It is also one of gestures which men sometimes forget about. If you are already in very romantic relations, you may offer her to seat on your knees.
When your lady is carrying something heavy, help her. Whether it is a bag with products or books, she will be glad to avoid heavy things. On the other hand, never offer a lady to carry her small handbag, as this is impolite and not accepted much by society. Besides, they usually don’t weight much, but you should agree to help with it if a lady asks herself.
So, you should just be more attentive and not to rush ahead to make your lady feel in a more womanish and tender way.