Have You Already Found Your Special One?

Elina, 19years old, Ukraine

When you think that you have finally found a person whom you can call your significant other, how can you be sure that you are not mistaken? It is said that you can feel passion to someone but this passion vanishes fast while love stays for years and allows to create families and spend the whole life in harmony and mutual understanding. So how to be sure that you are on the correct way?

Fist of all, it is communication. Of course, you can talk to your friends about different stuff but only with a person whom you love deeply you will discuss your inner worries which you can’t share with anyone else around. Besides, you don’t feel tired after being together and don’t want to avoid speaking. Finally, you have so many topics to discuss, that you never feel bored together.

The next important sign that you fit each other is that you have the same views on life, and not only on life. Of course, you can have some differences as opposites can attract, but still there is something that unites you and that is pleasant for you both.

You have traveled at least once. This is a great way to understand which kind of person is in front of you. Traveling is the changing of surrounding and often can bring stressful situations. In stress a person shows his or her real face. Besides, you will see whether you can cooperate well to cope with some difficulties on the example of a travel.

Look how your beloved person behaves on public and when you are alone. Does the behavior differs? What if she tries to show that you are just friends when you are surrounded by people and friends but is gentle and talks about love when you are alone? This is the sign that she is not ready to accept you as a partner completely and you should be aware of such situation.

The next great sign is that you trust each other. You don’t have secrets from each other and can answer frankly any question. You actually don’t want to do anything that you wouldn’t want to tell you beloved person.

Your passion doesn’t vanish or is at least at moderate level. You always feel something warm to this person and this doesn’t go anywhere. This feeling is called true love.

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