Arguing takes place in any relations no matter how much you love each other. It is well-known that the truth is born in arguing, so there is nothing bad in it. However, sometimes this progress can bring more destruction than use. If you do some of the following things during arguing, this means that you are completely wrong and you better either stop quarreling or change your tactics and think about your partner more.

For example, you may lean to winning no matter what. You may even not care whether you are right or not, will the result bring something positive to your couple and will you solve the present problem – you just need to defeat your partner and show that you are the only right person. It is better not to act like this, as you should find compromises for both of us and not to play the domestic tyrant.

Think over whether you are listening to your partner or not. If you just keep on insisting on your position not paying attention to your partner’s one, this is disrespectful. Arguing means communication but not just telling positions not coming to mutual understanding.

Save and keep turns. Everyone has the right and should have an opportunity to tell some position and point of view. It’s unfair to talk only about yourself. A couple means two people, so listen to the second one as well as you want to tell something.

Control the level of your anger. If it overwhelms you, you may do and say awful things which you will regret later. Being rational and thinking clearly is much better in such situation.

At some point, you may notice that you are returning to the same topics again and again. This is the sign that you are not managing to solve the problem, as it arises each time. You should better calm down and discuss why this happens not blaming each other in this fail. You simply can’t find the decision for both of us, but it actually always exists.

Do not shout at each other. When the voice is risen, the other half stops listening to what you are saying. Besides, such behavior is rude, especially concerning your beloved half.

Sometimes, it is better just to forget about the topic of your argument. All people differ and it may sometimes happen so that you will not come to mutual understanding in some question. Accept this and leave in peace rather than torture each other with nervous arguments.