Secrets in Relations

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Relations are so complex, it is really hard to understand what and how should be done not to ruin what you already have. Of course, being honest is important in relationship, as you should show another person that you accept her as yourself and can trust completely. This will allow you also to receive honesty back, and you will be harmonious together. However, there is always something which you shouldn’t tell your beloved person, as this may spoil your relations. These moments are not crucial, so you may easily avoid them.

Remember never to tell something abusing about her family. She grew up with these people and if their point of view differ from yours, this doesn’t mean that you should tell her that you don’t like this. She will probably stay on their side and there will be a big scandal between you two, so better keep in secret you negative attitude.

Everyone had past relations. Of course, it may be important to tell your partner that you had someone before, but avoid details. Just general information. Usually, women are more jealous than men, so your beloved person may feel awkward and uncomfortable listening to your story about previous love.

Sometimes, people have odd habits. This may be some trait of character or some deed that they are used to do. Don’t pay attention to it even if it annoys you, as you actually may have some odd traits too and not to notice them.

When you have a mutual financial account, you may face small problems of purchasing something for yourself personally. You may just keep some sum separately and spend it on your needs. You shouldn’t reveal how much your personal purchases cost.

Your lady may do something in the house not the way you are used to. Actually, she has been doing this for all her life, and if the result is as it should be, what is the reason for telling her that the process of fulfilling is wrong? She is doing her best to please you, so leave her do stuff the way she is used to.

It may happen so that she can fail in joking and even not to understand this. Such situation may happen with everyone, so don’t tell her that she told something wrong, she may become upset and abuse on you.

If you decide to share something about your beloved couple, think twice what you are saying. Besides, don’t tell her later that you’ve told something. People around keep such information in secret, and if it is not provocative, you may not bother her with telling about this.

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