Nowadays, many ladies moan that they can’t find a couple for themselves. On the other hand, when they do manage, they can complain that they are not too romantic and are not gentlemen at all. Unfortunately, all modern life and its speed took away possibilities of being truly attentive to women away from your home. In addition, some of them became completely feminist claiming that they can do everything without men’s help, so it is hard to define what she actually wants from you: to be gentleman or to let her be. As a result, spending time once with such a confident woman you may automatically start thinking that all other women are the same and there is no need acting like a gentleman with them, and your present will be quite enough. This is not true, so you will have to keep in mind how to me a gentleman for your woman.
First of all, you must be confident in yourself. You are a man, so you are the main one, the person with whom your lady should feel herself protected and calm. Lots of women are searching for a so-called “wall” in their partner, so confidence can become your first step to being a gentleman.
Show some skills which you have. Whether this is something connected with music or your hobby, you may show your results and achievements in it. Such step will show your lady that you are a serious person who is able to learn and accept new things.
Remember that all women are different, they have various traits of character, habits and behavior. If you have had relations earlier and in some certain situation your ex-couple behaved in one way, your new love can behave in quite another. Besides, you should never compare her with someone else either in her presence or just in your mind.
Going for a date, look attentively at your clothes. Women are interested in how you look, so your should feel yourself comfortable but stylish. Besides, always dress up according to the season or better the current weather, as who knows when it can change, and the date in calendar will not save you from the snow in the middle of April.
Don’t forget to talk to your lady. Ask her about her life and what happens with her everyday. There are lots of topics to discuss, pay more attention to her in this question, and she will feel that you care about her and are interested in her too.
Finally, you may simply act with her as you would like to be acted with you. In relations, everything you do comes back in time. Be gentle, attentive, passionate and careful – and she will tell everyone that her man is one of the last remained true gentlemen and will heel comfortable and happy by your side.