Firstly I wants to congratulate this site for their new Blog post for people to share some interesting news, facts and ideas as to relationships. Sharing some interesting thoughts about relationships can only be helpful. In Reading some interesting articles about women behavior helps a lot in real time relationships how women in general think and act or just the true facts about a successful relationship. Before we can have that face to face meeting everything starts with online dating when dating a person from abroad, which is much challenging, because it is truly the 1st step2truelove. Why challenging, because you have never been in contact with the person on the other side of a the world. The good thing of online dating is to help those who are shy of facing a stranger in real. It gives the shy person time to built some confidence through letters. Through letters it gives you enough time to structure your thoughts. To me online dating is more like marketing or advertising the product in such a manner to make it attractive for the client to buy it or to buy in it in this case “selling” yourself to the opposite sex. Pleeeease don’t misunderstand me you not going to advertise you here for the lady to buy you with real money or visa versa haha! Ok for those who have a good sense of humor. When you market the quality of the product you will advertise its pros and cons. How do we advertise ourselves? with our profile photos and something more about our characters and interests. This is the first impression if the person has the qualities that suits your interests. The outer appearance of lady catches the man’s eyes first. How you look and the way you dress. Remember ladies beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. Men have different tastes , because of our different personalities. Men in general loves beautiful girls, but inner beauty weighs more then outer beauty. That’s my points of view. Outer beauty fades after time. All what I can say just be yourself and look on your best. Now very important no product made by men is perfect and will last forever.Just like us as human beings none of us are perfect. I appreciates a girl very much who is as honest as far as possible as to her character. As to a girl that I am recently in contact who told me also she can be in a bad mood sometimes and not always the picture perfect image I have of her and that worries her a lot. She wants to know my opinion. I was so impress with her you know why??? , because is honest with herself and tells me she is a real human being. I don’t concentrates too much on the negative side, but to be supportive at all times and to overcome differences in a loving way. I think this is how we as men must act. Women needs a lot of attention and love, secondly they needs our protection and security. I like the great qualities as well as the less great qualities she advertise herself. To some up everything try to advertise yourself naturally, honestly and looking on your best as far as possible. Heinrich
Author: heinrich ( South Africa)