Despite the fact that you probably communicate for a long period of time with your lady, you might have noticed that she reacts weirdly on some of your actions during communication. This is just because you might not always understand what she wants to hear from you on this or that story. So, there are several ways which will help you to understand your lady better and improve your communication with her.
Sometimes, a lady may start telling you about her problems, for example, with health or at her job. When a women does this, she simply wants some support and understanding, but usually you would surely want to give her advice on ow to cope with situation. Women do know how to deal with problems, they just need support, not explanations which may make them feel even more frustrated.
Ladies often need help, and when they decide to be weaker, they refer to a man. In this case they would like their request to be done as soon as possible, and if they wait for too long, they start to be nervous and quarreling, as it is natural for them that if they have asked, they need this now.
Some women tend to plan their day from their waking up and till the late evening. They stick to their schedule and don’t like when their man starts to change something rapidly, and this often causes misunderstandings. Just tell her in advance when your plans change so that she can have enough time to correct her schedule and not to be angry at you.
During common everyday talks, a man tends to describe events in general while a woman wants to hear more details. If you write her a letter, make it longer or divide in two parts. She will appreciate your will to share each minute of your life with her.
Finally, women are used to talking with hints. They always use them because they want their man to do something particular himself but don’t want this look like their direct asking. Just listen to your woman more attentively and you will surely find out how to get rid of misunderstandings in your communication.