There are so many words about importance of communication in relationship, that they shouldn’t be ignored. However, it sometimes happens so that you don’t know neutral topics which will be interesting for both of you and will help to know each other better. So what can you discuss in this case?

Ask about recent vacation. Or you may talk about the place she has visited and loved the most. Or even places she wanted to visit and why. This will help you to figure out preferences in having rest. For example, you two like hot sunbathing or maybe skiing in cold mountain snows. This will be helpful to find similarities or differences.

What about marriage? How you two treat this question? What are you expecting from your relations? Of course, this is not a question that should be asked on the first date or during the first communication, but you may always carefully touch this topic and see the reaction of your lady, as she may negatively refuse to talk about this or support you with a happy smile.

The question about children is also vital. It may flow up unexpectedly when you see a couple of kids playing around you. Or you may even not ask anything and just look how your lady reacts on them, as she may gladly follow them with eyes or become irritated with noise and say something unpleasant about having children.

If you are already going to live together and your relations are really serious, it is OK to discuss finances. You may ask your lady whether she wants to work herself or would prefer to become a housewife and take care of children and house. On the other hand, if she does want to work, does you two want to combine your income and share it when you need or would rather have separate places of keeping money?

These topics are useful both for those who have only started communication and those who is already in long-term relations. Every problem and every question can be solved with a simple and calm communication.