The quarrel is a normal thing in a relations. All people are different and they have different characters. Sometimes you have just another opinion then your woman and it can be start for quarreling. Surely, you had situation in your life when you caught reproachfully and silent gaze on yourself of your girlfriend, though you don’t see the obvious reasons and motives for the offense. But you know one thing – the scandal is inevitable.
Naturally, you would like to disassemble the causes of conflict, and do not repeat them, coming to a mutual agreement, as a reasonable and sensible person. But it is not so simple with the girl.
Therefore, remember a few tips to disarm your Ukrainian woman to avoid quarrels and conflicts.
Firstly you have to honestly analyze the quarrel. When she will be calm, you can better see the root of the problem.
Take your frustration and feelings of helplessness. After a strong scandal, both of you are likely to feel fatigue and indecision. Will you stay together like a couple ? Can you fix it ? It’s normal to feel sadness and disappointment. Just leave these feelings and behave normally. If you go through life together, the pellet from this quarrel will evaporate eventually.
If you’re constantly arguing and quarreling over the same, you have to realize that sooner or later this issue will destroy your relationship. However, if after an argument you will see that the problem is not so significant, you will be able to identify other points of contact.
Decide for yourself, do you want to keep your opinion or your relationship? One of you has to make a step forward. If you take the situation intoyour own hands, your will have the chances of staying together.
At least, you can write a list. Write down, what you want to talk and discuss about. Avoid things which can cause a new quarrel.
But what can you do for apologizing?
Method 1
Begin to speak first.
As already known, the best defense is the attack. And most likely, she is still the offended lady and she expects from you the first step. Do it! So do not ignore her expectations and resentment. You can start a conversation with the phrase: “I understand that you’re going mad / offended at me, but listen, please… or I want to tell you …” Then turn on your diplomatic skills to negotiate. Be sure, this step will give you a considerable head start.
Method 2
Turn on your charm.
If your fault is negligible, probably your lady is just waiting for apologizing and she is ready to forget all grudges and forgive you. So turn on the whole your charm, accompanied by the phrase: “Yes, I am innocent, but you know how I love you and how I didn’t want to hurt you …”. Believe me, after these words, all will be well.
Method 3
The easiest and usually most effective way is to admit that you were wrong and sincerely apologize. For stronger effect you may write a nice sms or send an e-mail (available in verse). You can write a letter by hand and put it into classical envelope and hand it to her.
Method 4
Organize a “public” apology. For example, send “hello” through the radio. Better if it is her favorite radio station.
Method 5
Arrange a romantic candlelight dinner (supper, breakfast, lunch). Organize an evening of pleasant memories. Prepare the musical composition in advance.