Somebody calls love a disease. Because when you are fall in love, the pulse exceeds the limit, and the heart beats in your throat, and generally all the signs of stress are there. But for some reason it seems that the wings are behind the back, at the same time unbearably you want to sing, laugh and cry, and do silly things. Why does that happen?
What is produced in this case? Firstly, dopamine is a hormone of desire that stimulates the concentration of effort and commitment, that’s why when a person falls in love, she or he is pulled like a magnet to the object of their feelings. This neurohormone is a burst of energy and euphoria, prompting you to make deeds and sometimes stupidities. Especially there is a lot of it in the blood at the beginning of relations.
The hormone of happiness “serotonin” makes imperfect world perfect in the eyes of a man in love. Under the influence of this illusion of happiness, people tend to communicate more closely as much as possible, they want to build a family.
Epinephrine and norepinephrine are the stress hormones. They are responsible for insomnia and wish to do crazy things for your loved one, change the world. They can provoke not only the rise of energy, but also palpitations, anxiety, agitation and tremors.
Endorphins are biological tranquilizers, and they protect lovers from fear and anxiety. These dampers are released when the adorable person is close to you and has physical contact with you. Due to them we owe a sense of security and well-being.
Oxytocin and vasopressin are well known like hormones of tenderness and affection,which are produced when couple is happily in love, when they have confidence in relations. When relations enters to a phase of mutual love, these hormones replace the hormones of love, and strong passion changes to tenderness and understanding. But, according to scientists, the oxytocin leads partners to erotic games, causes the orgasm, the production of mother’s milk and mother’s affection and love.
The effect of hormones of love is similar to the effect of drugs. Therefore the hormones of love exist in the human body just for two to six months. Then either the love replace them, or feelings leave themselves. And what is about love? Is is eternal? According to scientists, love can live for only 3 years. But you should not be sad, everyone is able to arouse the ejection of hormones and raises the feeling of happiness again and again. It is all about biological side of the question, and what about feelings?
How to fall in love and why people feel it?
If you are open and you want to communicate, your lovely lady one will see it and of course will be interested in you.
Of course, it is not necessary to lay out all your secrets on the first dating. Excessive frankness may also scare. But at least smile and naturally awkward movement or a phrase like “I as always forget keys at home – leaky head!” will show to the person that you are also a human, you are also experiencing the emotions, and you also have disadvantages. It will help him to be liberated and at the same time will add to your score in his eyes.
The more common you have between you (the interests, tastes in literature, music or a favorite habit of drinking coffee in the morning ), the bigger, of course, you have a chance “to be attracted” to each other. And it is not just because of a common hobby – it is an occasion to meet and start a conversation.