So, you got married and started your life like a family man. All the words that you are speaking to your wife very important now, so it’s time to back up your actions. Fortunately, to be a good husband is possible. The most important thing is to act according to conscience, as your heart commands, guided by love to your wife. These simple steps, if you take them seriously, can make your future overall happier.

1) Treat her with respect and understanding. Understand that your wife is an independent and individual, and she does not want to do everything as well as you do, even if your opinions are usually the same. Here there are few examples of how you can show your respect:

Keep your word. If you promised to do something, do it. Did you promise to wash the dishes? Do it. Show, that you love her and want to support her even in such little things as washing dishes.

Do not be late. The time of your wife is no less valuable than your own. Treat it with respect.

Stop guessing. Do not think that she will do sometimes only because she is a woman. Think how to ask for a favor.

Listen your wife. Sometimes all we need – is a man who will listen, hug and cheer us. If she needs to talk – listen your woman carefully and try to understand.

2) Never lie. Get used to speak only the truth. Ask yourself, how would you like it if your wife hid from you something ? If she asks, always say where you’re going. Explain to her your motives, even if they seem unimportant to you. Honesty and openness are the basis of good communication and relationship.

3) Never make a betrayal! It goes without saying, however, it has to be mentioned. Betrayal is a kind of lie. You would not like if your wife does the same.

4) Don’t be lazy. Women do not like this, and in general it is a bad habit. Surprise her by cooking dinner, cleaning the house, going in for sports.

5) Stop to be selfish. Instead of wondering every time what you can do for yourself, think about what your wife would like, or what you can do for your marriage. Do not too be jealous. Jealousy can be very selfish. Do not bother your wife to do something only because you’re jealous.

6)Find compromises. Try to negotiate. Never raise your voice, do not shout on your wife. Remember, she trusts you, she is waiting that with you she will be comfortable and safe.

7)Think, how to please her. Ironically, the little things feed off the relationship. Ask yourself: “How can I make my wife happier?”You do not have to make something extraordinary. The most important thing is the idea, willing and emotions. Work on the relationship with the mother and father in law. Be sure, it is very important to your wife.

8)Show your love. Why did you marry her? Tell your half how you love her. Say this often. This thing will add warmth to your relationship and reduce stress. Do not forget about the romance. Do not think that if you are married, romance is in the past. This is not true. Anyway, marriage without romance is not the same. Be romantic.

9) Have an active sex life. Do not stop having sex, do not allow yourself to grow lazy, try to bring pleasure to your wife, continue to search something new for sex.

10)Expand your identity. Marriage is the opportunity to know your couple better. If you hide some aspect of the person who you are, you probably will not get the maximum from the marriage. 11)Remember, you get what you give! Have long conversations, tell her something interesting, share with your excites and interests, share with your fears and doubts. Be yourself!

12)Remember the golden rule: «One should treat others as one would like others to treat oneself». It is one of the most important things in marriage, which helps solve problems in the relationship.