Holidays are coming, and according to statistics, this is time when many breakups happen. You may notice this yourself. Holidays is a tense time, everyone is nervous, and as a result, couples may fall apart. Of course, this is not about you and your beloved woman, as your relations are truly strong and eternal! However, seeing people around breaking up and hearing such stories from your surroundings may bring your mood down and also affect you negatively. How can you set a limit to such reaction to keep your relationship healthy and happy? Everything is quite simple.
First of all, you should always remember that all people around you are your teachers. They can bring something good into your life even with their negative actions. For example, if they broke up, you have an opportunity to analyze what and why has happened and never do the same. You may also discuss this happening with your beloved half and maybe figure out some problems in advance which you might miss without this.
Be real. Don’t over-expect something. Usually, breakups happen because people expect one thing but receive something another. This concerns not only gifts but also place of spending the holiday, circle of people and so on. So, you should first of all remember that this is a holiday for two, that love and efforts are more important than gifts, and that you can always find mutual understanding if you talk to each other.
Never forget about your second half during the holidays. Of course, you would like to keep pace with meeting with your friends and your parents and visiting the party at your working place – and all this requires your time. But if you ignore your beloved half, she will become really abused. So, before having too many go outs on your holiday, find time for spending with your dearest and most beautiful lady in the world, as she deserved this!
Holiday period can make you quite nervous. As you need more time than always, you have to be in constant hurry. In addition, you must find all gifts you need, and if you can’t succeed, this makes you irritative. As a result, you can become harsh and have a useless quarrel with your parter. Just be patient, calm and remember that relations are more important.
When you face people who have just separated, they usually start telling why this happened. They tell you various negative things about their partners. This is just typical, and people do this not to offend others but because they are abused with the situation. However, the more you listen – the more you start thinking about your own relations, and you may even start comparing the situation of this person and your own relations. Never do this, as your relationship is different, and all people differ. You can always be happy, just be positive and don’t overwhelm your thoughts with negativeness.
Finally, you will be much happier in your relations if you spend time with same happy people whose relations are good and stable. This will support you subconsciously and you will be less stressed without hearing negative and upsetting news.
Just be happy together, discuss problems if you have, and remember that it is important to spend holidays with your beloved and close people!