Love can come unexpectedly. Despite the fact that everyone wants and searches for it, there are things which it can bring and which you would never expect to face, as even books describing love can’t show you its other side. You will have to experience everything yourself, but be prepared!
Love may not appear the first minute of your communication. Yes, there is such thing as “love at the first sight,” but majority of people prefer long communication to know each other better and understand if this person fits you. Only after this love can occur. So, if your lady doesn’t show obvious signs, you can still work your way to her heart!
Many people think that love also has the meaning of absolute mutual agreement and understanding. This is not true. Even if you are in love, you still remain different people with different views on life. So, you may even have fights. But remember – your love will help you to overcome all obstacles and find understanding.
Love may scary you at first. Especially if you have already had relations and they ended not too positively. Yet, don’t think about negative things. New relations are not your old ones, they will be absolutely different, and they will surely make you happy, if you expect them to!
Usually, when people start to date, they teach each other good things. However, bad habits can also be transferred, so be careful.
Don’t accept love as it should be. It is not something that appears are exists itself. It requests work and lots of attention. This is a work for two of you. There are many things which you will need to discuss, like what you expect from future, for example, and this will help you to make your relationship strong and stable.
And, at last, don’t think negative. As you have long-distant relations, people may not believe in you two, and in your love. They may start to persuade you that you will fail and that you will never reach your goals and happiness. Never listen to others, pay attention only to your heart, as it knows what is better for you.
So, don’t be afraid of love, but accept it and understand that it will require your attention. Work on it to make yourself and your woman happy, and you will see that everyone who thought bad of your goals was wrong, and you are the most happy person on earth and, what is most important, you deserved this!