Struggling with Jealousy

Struggling with Jealousy

First you fall in love, then you promise to be together. Everything is great in your relations. So what happened then? She began to be jealous. How to explain your woman that you are only with her and you love only her. What can be harder then feelings of jealousy? Especially it is difficult for women because of their extreme sensitivity and the power of imagination.

Women’s jealousy is characterized by mistrust, suspicion, doubts and that can grow out to depression. Why are women jealous, and how to deal with this feeling of jealousy?

A struggle with the women’s jealousy is necessary, because through it you can start to destroy your life and feelings. But before you start fighting with it, please note that jealousy is that spice and seasoning that makes your feelings more intense and delicious. Of course if it is “clever and right” jealousy. Without it you can feel vapidity and routine, because even the most passionate relationships with time become boring. Jealousy is the highlight. With it your partner will not forget that you are still attractive and desirable. But you need to use it very skillfully.

Jealous woman will go to great lengths to back you. She does not tolerate other women. Betrayal – that’s what a woman is afraid of when she is jealous. Even if the betrayal will be only moral.
Struggling with Jealousy
The fact that you are with the best woman is not satisfying for her. She wants to be the one and only one for you. The men’s explanation that betrayal was only physiologically, and he loves her, will not be better for woman. Similarly, the moral treason, when a man loves and wants another one, but he sleeps with another, will destroy the inner world of women, cause suffering.

Jealousy happens because the woman hates to be compared.

Women’s jealous suspicions are different: if the behavior of the partner has changed, does not matter why, a woman will find the beginnings of treason in this. If man cool off in relations, or he starts to give less gifts, the first thought will be about betrayal. Or if he becomes particularly thoughtful and gives gifts without cause — woman will think that it is because he apologizes after sins.

So what to do with women’s uncontrollable jealousy when it goes beyond all limits, for example, she begins to check mail, phone, looking for something in the pockets of your jacket and trousers. She begins to ask where you are, with whom, even if she knows the answers to these questions.
Struggling with Jealousy
You have to fight with such feeling, if you want to live with her happily and in love. But in fact not every woman can get rid of jealousy. She understands that something is wrong, but she can’t make herself stop it. Feeling of possessiveness, envy, resentment and fear force her to say you rude and negative words.

So what can you do for stopping it? When is woman jealous? When she fears to lose her beloved one. And why is she afraid of losing him? Because she is afraid of staying alone.

Show your woman that you love her more than everything in the life. Try to spend as much time as you can with her and don’t forget to say compliments to her. Call oftener and find interesting hobby for her or even for both of you. For example you can dance together. Try to explain to woman that every person should have his own space, his own little secrets and his past. But for better understanding you should open some secrets for her, in such way she will see that you trust her. Explain that if she allows you to have a small part of your soul for something personal, intimate, you will always be attractive to each other.

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