When you only start communication and you still don’t know a person well, you may face such a problem as awkward silence. You want to keep on talking, but you don’t know what to say, and this makes you feel a little bit frustrated, as you really want to make a lady like you but not to think that you are weird and bad interlocutor. So, what to talk about so that you avoid awkwardness and let your lady tell more about herself too.
Tell her about your job. Maybe this is not the most interesting topic for communication, but t always allows another person know you better and understand your lifestyle. And you will know what your lady is doing for living.
Do you like animals? Do you have some at home? Or maybe you dream about having one really special and unusual? Isn’t this a wonderful topic for long communication? Of course it is! Besides, it is well-known that if a person has a pet at home, he or she will talk and describe it for hours! In addition, ladies who love pets are considered to be kinder and tenderer as they can take care of others.
Video games became a real mainstream nowadays, almost everyone plays them. They are funny, exciting and tell different interesting stories. So, if you ask your lady about if she plays them, you will get a nice topic to discuss. If you haven’t ever played anything, maybe you can choose some online game which you can test together! This way you will spend more time together and support each other, even if in the virtual world.
Everyone has some hobby and the way she or she prefers to spend free time. Maybe this is walks and parties with friends, maybe this is long walks in nature. Tell your lady about what you like to do, and find out if you have something in common. Even if not, your differences give you a wonderful opportunity to try something unusual and new for you together! This will surely bring you up closer, and you will always have something to discuss.
What your lady likes to eat? Does she have any preferences, or maybe even allergy on some products? Maybe she is vegetarian, and you may occasionally offer her to taste a dish which she absolutely can’t and doesn’t want to eat. So, if you tell her your tastes in advance and ask about hers, and you will not notice how time flies by, and at the same time you begin to know each other much better!
Tell your lady about your childhood. What kind of a kid you’ve been, and what you liked to do. Maybe you were a madcap and always were making your parents worry about you? And you surely have many funny stories from those times, and so does your lady!
So, never worry about awkward silence. It is said that people in love can even say things to each other without communicating. But in any case, just be yourself, and each date will be successful for you two!