«Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed.»
– Albert Einstein
Once each of us wants to be in easy circumstances with work, home and love. The last variant is the most important thing for all these components of real, beautiful, marvelous, fabulous life. Actually, it’s so hard to create your own business without this regard, affection, adoration. Even if you are a man of means, it’s necessary for you to find the soul mate with whom you can divide it. Then, the question arises how can you find her/him in this world?
We are going to examine this question from the men’s side. How are they looking for the real future wife with all inclusive? Which criteria are important for this search? Honestly speaking, there are a lot of various investigations about the men’s selection of woman. Some French scientists drew a conclusion that men prefer woman who resemble one another. Le Figaro writes that appearance plays a significant role in relationship between woman and man. This research conducted by the scientists of Institute of Science about evolution, Montpelier. People who participated in this examination had to choose some portraits which they consider attractive. According to the results, 40% of examinees chose the photos of women with the same color of hair, eyes, thickness of lips and so on. For some of them it was really important the existence of dimples as they have. Than, they examined some loving couples who were in love more than one year. The majority of couples after analysis had the similarity with facial features. Moreover, they underline that it’s important not only the definite facial features, but also the similarity at all.
Earlier, some British scientists examined that the image of ideal woman suffers the most important changes in men’s realization who have some problems with stress. Instead of thin top models they start to look at women with normal forms or even with some surplus of weight. It was examined by Viren Swami from University of Westminster, London. They compared a reaction of men who have stress and men who keep calm on the image of women with different forms from thin top models to women who have some surplus of weight. These two groups were at the age of 18-45 and estimated the attraction of women. During the experiment, all men who had stress chose the images of women with normal and bigger forms. They said that people who are in stressful situation are uncertain, so it’s so difficult to choose something in this moment.
Moreover, the American psychologists marked that men have an interest to women who look stupid, sleepy or drunk. Kerry Getz who graduated from University of Texas at Austin examined this question. The scientists and she consider that men choose the easy game, that’s why they select these simply women who are sleepy and drunk, because they are easy to get. During the investigation, 76 examinees had to classify women according to the level of attraction. Most of all preferred those women who looked sleepy an inert.
By the way, we can say all of these investigations, experiments show us that every man has own ideal woman with definite forms and facial features. Of course, appearance plays a significant role in the selection of you future partner but it’s only for men. Mostly, women choose her future partner basing on intellect or charismata.