In one recent film there was an indicative scene where a man asks his girlfriend about what women want. And she reveals him the terrible secret, which, according to her, in any case should not be disclosed. Leaning toward him, she admits in a whisper: “We ourselves have no idea what we want!”
This, of course, is not quite so. Women are well aware of what they want. If you ask questions right, it is easy to remove the surface of the set of requirements and wishes that she would like to show the man.
But in every joke there is some joke. With all the transparency and visibility of women’s desires for them lies a deep and complex motivation, which is a rare woman is aware of.
So, trying to reach full list of women “want”, it is easy to see their inconsistency. We can say that a woman expects a man simultaneously display both models of behavior that is, by definition, impossible. Not a single living man can cover a full list of women’s demands, at best – only half of it.
But neither men nor women do realize it. Every woman is looking for a magic prince who embodies all the traits and properties she needs. And men do not understand what is happening and what to do: to break himself in favor of the woman, or rebel against the requirements to change. But the outcome is always the same – relationship that perhaps has begun as a fairy tale and a gift of fate is destroyed.
Woman does not understand her own contradictions and can not give up her desires. She would rather blame her man that he doesn’t want to change. But even if a man indulges her wishes, then he will stop suiting her. Women doesn’t need a slave-man any more, and then begins a new round of allegations – now in weakness, until the relationship breaks apart into pieces.
Every woman dreams about happy marriage. But what is this? From ancient times this thought is embedded in the head thanks to the parents of girls. Parents always said that she must find good husband who will have his own house, prosperity and near him she must be just hostess and mother of their kids. To be honest, in modern times it’s true information too. But not just because of parents but because most of women want to get all from men and not to worry about where she must get money and what to give to their kids to eat. Her man must worry about this.
Besides, every woman is a person and every person wants one thing – to be happy. Of course happiness is something special for each of us. But women are persons like men and they also want to be happy and they have same dream as men. So let’s try to be happy and to make being happy somebody near us!