All life we hear that man must be elder than woman. But today we can see a lot of couples when woman is older. Is it right?What is ideal difference of age between man and woman?

If man is older than partner
Such relations we can call classical. Such situation happens because men before marriage want to have good education, good career, to buy a flat or a house, car, to choose right dreams in life. Thereby a lot of men marry not earlier then in 30. Today such families where man is older than woman for 20, 30, 40 years are very popular. If we talk about the public perception, we can say that the best couples are where the difference is 10 years. Otherwise, the marriage can grow a prejudice and gossip. Psychologists say that such different ages relations are the strongest. Because in such union the role of leader belongs to mature and discreet man, who can keep emotions and mistakes. Just one important moment: in such couple man shouldn’t be the dictator, who will always say the last word. If so, the wife may feel aggrieved and oppressed, and the marriage will not last long.

If the lady is older than man
Conservative society does not agree with such unions very often. Young husband is often called gigolo, and his couple – spinster. But psychologists say that such a marriage can develop happily. But it will be better if the difference will be not more than 5 years. If the lady is older for 10 or more years there are 2 variants of development. If she is wise and patient there will be no serious problems in the relations. Psychologists clarify: this type of relationship is dictated by the subconscious desire of an adult woman to create and save her family. And to create a warm and cozy atmosphere in the house she would do everything in her power. The main is that woman shouldn’t allow young man’s custody and not make him being a child.

The couple of the same age
Such couples are typical nowadays. This type of marriage has many advantages: common interests, common friends, equivalent life experience, open perspectives. The disadvantage is that too much like the couple may simply annoy each other. Also, in such an alliance someone has to take a leadership role, and very often they are women that do not like still immature and emotional man.

A new study by Finnish scientists proved that the men of this country should marry ladies under them for 15 years. But Swedish researchers found that the stronger sex is better to look for a wife lady 6 years younger. They suppose that this ideal age difference in couple.

But to be honest the best couple is where you feel yourself happy. So find your woman on this site and don’t mind about your age!