Most boys and men think that life of bachelor is a dream of every man. Today we begin to understand why such statement is used in society and if it’s true. It will be useful to show how some of facts about these men are wrong.
I think that the reason of such thoughts are in movies and shows. Look at the film about bachelors. They show how cool and crazy the life of single man is. He lives in the luxurious apartments and goes to parties with friends. Also he has a lot of pretty girls and always has dates with them. But is this true?
Any unmarried man can be considered as a bachelor. Bachelor status is not the absence of a lawful wife and not a credo. Therefore, to enroll in a cohort of selected ones, you simply need to be unmarried. Bachelors are a special group among the unmarried, the most distant from the marriage and family. How do they stand? The main thing for these men – a thrilling attitude to their own position in a precise way of life, with their established habits, interests, affections. Any mention of marriage for them is inappropriate and not palatable. However, for many women this is what attracts. Sometimes, even the most inveterate bachelor has a chance to meet a woman seeking to involve such man in the depths of family life.
Bachelors have low social level. Psychologists of women’s magazines and websites love to analyze the behavior of this type of men, calling them socially immature. If we assume that the marriage is the highest stage of the relationship, from this point of view bachelors are indeed defective. But usually, just having a family, people are deprived of the opportunity to engage themselves fully. All of man’s impulses and dreams are buried under a pile of family problems. The equality of spouses is often fiction, and then one of them has to give way, violating interests, sacrificing, in fact, part of their lives. For society a man-bachelor is a notorious and indecisive person. In general – the marriage is the harmonious development of society. It seems that life would blossom if such men never existed! But it is not so! That male bachelors own a great number of discoveries and social transformation. The powerful world’s literature describes the adventures and misadventures of single men who are unmarried.
Also there are a lot myths about bachelors. But this fact is topical in our time. To be honest, every person wants to have somebody who will wait at home after working day. And bachelors are not exception. If single man meets the woman who will touch his heart, he will forget about his rules of bachelor.