How often do your dreams come true? In the majority of situations, a dream is something far, unattainable. But if you look better, you will see that dream is just your wish, which we give the status of impossible, improbable and fantastic. But they do come true, you just need to change your opinion about it and your perception. What is the best way you can use to make your dream and innermost desires come true?
The first thing to realize is if this is your personal desire or dream. There are a lot of people in our life, for example, relatives and friends, who usually tell their desires in loud, we listen to them, some of them we accept and subconsciously they become our own desires. For example, your friend told you that he wants to buy new phone (or house, shoes, computer). You agreed with him that it’s really necessary thing for him and at once you think that your telephone is older than 3 years, you don’t like your house, your computer is broken and your shoes are small for you. And even though your phone works very well, you can fix your computer by yourself, you will clean your house and will like it again, and your shoes are not so small for you, but you still want something that somebody else wants. You need to learn how to go away from such traps of our mind to differ your wishes from wishes of other people.
One of the factors that will show that this is really just your wish is the feel of joy and happiness when it comes true for you personally. Happiness should not be because somebody will envy and praise you but even if nobody on the planet will know that your wish came true. You will still be happy. Each desire that appeared may be tested with such criteria. As a rule, the wish of somebody else will not come true too quickly and will bring short-term joy and a little of happiness.
Maybe you paid attention that wishes that are really important come to your life faster and easier. For example, you want your personal car, want it so much, but you understand that in your situation it’s a luxury: maximum where you will go by it will be the nearest supermarket. Or another situation: for successfully working you need to have the speed of movement and the presence of the vehicle, and this will make your life easier. How do you think, in what situation the appearance of the car in your life is more real? From the utility factor, implies the following, no less important condition for execution of desire: the presence of conditions.
If there is a strong desire, it is not important to put additional conditions, just let it be fulfilled in all circumstances. So be prepared that your desire may be fulfilled even under adverse circumstances, and do not forget to be grateful, even in such situation.
You can also bring a lot of different conditions under which fulfillment of desires is most possible: it is a positive attitude – the ability to see the good in any situation, it is non-attachment to the result – do not get hung up on one and see the diversity of life. It is the ability to see and use the favorable circumstances. It is environmentally friendly and – desire should not bring trouble to others. The main thing is to learn to hear and listen to yourself, and all your dreams will come true!