Friendship without mutual sympathy is impossible in principle. That’s why no one believes that between a man and a woman can be just friendly relationship without any romantic moments. If man and woman are friends, share secrets, and they are interested in each other, such a friendship usually develops into something more serious. Over time, friends are eager to spend more time together, bound, bored without each other, and suddenly realize that… fell in love. This feeling is quite natural, since in man inherent desire to find a soul mate. But unfortunately, the love between friends is not always mutual, and many receive from such a relationship only bitterness and suffering. How much luck, friendship, in this case can result in a quarrel, separation, or true love. And whether a man and a woman just be friends, work closely and confidentially communicate, without a hint of love and intimacy? Let’s try to find an answer to this question.
1.Unrequited love. One of the “friends” secretly suffering and the other don’t notice. This love is afraid to reveal their feelings for fear that it may damage the relationship or the love disguises under normal friendly relations. Sometimes that love can not be revealed because one already has a relationship with another person, and to intervene and to hurt your loved one does not want one. Usually such friendships may soon cease, because love just could not bear the suffering of the heart do not iron. It is important to talk with each other and find a way out together. If your friend is in love with you and you want to see his only friend, it is best to finish the friendship, so as not to cause another person pain and suffering.
2.Mutual love. Both “friends” experienced the same feelings, but do not dare to approach, fearing that it could destroy the friendship. And in vain, because when two people have much in common: interests, tastes, views and opinions when they feel the need for each other, the friendship between these people can be the beginning of a happy family life. As a rule, marriages between the former friends are more likely to survive the marital problems and not fall apart because of quarrels and misunderstandings.
3.One of the friends is married. Friendship in this case often destroys the family. Family relationships are complicated, but one always close, and he is white and fluffy … It is important to understand that he is white and fluffy, precisely because only a friend, and nothing more. In common life, he may well be quite unbearable.
4.The old friendship. If the two people have long been friends, they know about each other so much secrets but they are in love, then there may be a different problem. They are so well-known partners, it simply does not allow them to go closer, loving relationship. There is a certain shyness, indecision, and in this case, really hard to move from friendship to a serious relationship, it is difficult to make the first move. But then everything goes like clockwork.
But if you have the same situation where you love a person who is your friend -don’t be so shy and tell about your feelings. You may not afraid to lose your friend and beloved but you will get the chance to build new relations.