It is very important to have a solid foundation for happy and strong relations. Initially it should be love, mutual understanding, mutual trust, and sexual desire between two loving people.
Love is irreplaceable and inalienable thing in life of the couple. Love will not be eternal if it is not grown. You need to care for it as for a rare flower in the garden.

Mutual understanding is a very important factor in family happiness. And it can become the main mechanism, saving love after all emotional storms. The most interesting is that mutual understanding can be improved if you know how to do it. Young couples usually begin with a falling in love with the partner. If they have enough desire and ability for building the family life, their love will stay alive for many years.

For better understanding you should be able to study how to speak and listen to the interlocutor respectfully, tenderly, without interruption, without making comments. You should realize the sense of words and try to understand the context. It is very helpful to make a conclusion after both opinions, because sometimes people can understand each other wrong. You need to speak with each other. You will have possibility to solve to problem, only if you describe it.

Remember, nobody can command and dictate the rules in relations. There is a very important psychological trick to escape the commander’s tone. If you want to express your dissatisfaction to your beloved one, do it in the form of wishes for the future. For better understanding your phrase should never begin with the words “You are wrong.” You should say: “I feel…” Tell about your mood, about your emotional condition, when your woman makes something strange or unacceptable for you. But before starting a conversation, properly think, is it so unacceptable?

If you feel that the conversation will be painful for her, try to show your feelings – hug her or kiss, express your care. The main thing – do not wait that your partner will change for better immediately, and begin to change at once. Treat people the way you want them to treat you. This is also about forms of behavior. Understanding doesn’t include only the ability to listen, without hurting each other, but at the same time it is also a constant search for compromise. You must be able to look for an option that will suit for both. If you find the way of understanding, you will be able to strengthen mutual trust.

Another important thing in happy relations is the sexual desire. Of course, this is not everything, but it can be 50% of deep feelings to each other. It is not so simple to maintain the fire of sexual desire. If you are long time together, it is very difficult to feel it so strong. But you have to find the way of surprise each other every time. You need to become someone another in the bedroom and play with your bodies, thinking and fantasizing.

Family happiness is very fragile. It is necessary to protect, nurture and grow during the whole life.