We all came online with a proper matter. Mostly, this matter is to “see how it goes”. But like in real life, there are rules, and yes, it is better to know these rules before-ahead. Or at least, to be warned. When on site it is imperative to keep the following in mind:

– The ladies are not desperate, they are not living in abject poverty hoping any man will save them. You being form the West and having passport and cash is not a reason they would be interested in you.
It is like real life, the ladies are looking for love or marriage, and have chosen to simply broaden their options. They are intelligent, some very successful, and all fully functioning ladies. They are on a dating site, and looking for options outside of their country, same as you.

– Yes you will receive many notifications and requests from many beautiful woman. It is not a scam and most importantly do not let it go to your head. Simply most ladies in Eastern Europe are beautiful. However of utmost importance to remember is, there are more woman than men online. So they send a request to all. It does not mean they have real interest in you YET! They first need to chat and see if the 2 of you have compatible personalities.

– Be honest with yourself with what your intentions are online, and align the ladies you choose to speak to accordingly. If she is only talking about sex etc, then no you will not soon be married with a happy family. Choose accordingly to your expectations, with whom you will chat.

– Letters, many ladies will write racy letters. It is not an invitation to speak to them like sluts, or disrespect them. They are simply sharing a fantasy with you, to get your attention. Most are very serious online and you must remember they compete with many other ladies for the attention of only a few men. So they will do things to set themselves aside. It does not mean anything other than what it is.

– This is just like dating in real life the only exception is there are far more beautiful woman who take far more pride in their appearance than what you are accustomed to. Treat every first chat like you would treat every first date in real life. This way the lady will also be given the opportunity to know what you really look for and who you really are. She will then decide if she could be serious about you or not. And you can make your own decision about her.

– Online dating is a two way road. You choose, you are chosen.