Relations at work became the subject of many movies, both native and foreign. And we have repeatedly seen in at work such a phenomenon. And a stranger novel is interesting to watch. But what is it – to participate in it?..
In most cases, the protagonists of romance novels are single women. They have much more than free men, as everybody knows. And if in any institution comes to work attractive or even an ordinary man, we can say with confidence that he will not be left without female attention. The eyes of unmarried women will be addressed to him. If he is not married – excellent. The team will be watching with interest at the development of the romantic relations. Of course, with the eyes will be gossip, but unmalicious.
But if the woman is free, and the man is married – oh, then start the Brazilian show! The whole office will oversee every step in love and excitedly gossip behind their backs. Married women, of course, will condemn a lonely colleague. A family man – jealous of his more fortunate fellow.
Office is generally a favorable place for the emergence of relations. After all, the work is where we are all trying to look the best way, come back neatly combed, well dressed, and try to show our best side. And the most favorable opportunity for tying informal relations are corporate parties. There arises the contrast between strong business environment and the possibility of personal communication. The restaurant, recreation, meal with alcohol… Many employees are waiting for corporate events with hope: specifically to buy a new outfit, visit a beauty salon to do her hair and so on.
It all happens … And then already begins to develop a relationship. Relationship can serve as a tool for movement on career ladder. Those who tied a personal relationship at work, set themselves different goals. For some, romance and flirting at work – it is just a search for sexual gratification.
But for others office romance is a tool for the promotion of the career ladder. The most typical cases: the boss and a secretary, a research director and assistant, etc.
In these cases, a man uses his official position. And his partner, which it accepts, thus counts on the effective construction of her career. At least, she hopes to increase salaries or positions, benefits, and vacation at the best time, and so forth.
Cynically? Yes. But at all times there were people who looked at the relationship between a man and a woman with a similar pragmatism.
Men often interpret office romances as an opportunity to obtain sexual experience. They just enjoy the situation, which itself is in the hands. Therefore, they are fairly easy to complete these relationships. Like, it has been and gone, and do not need to do from this tragedy.
In women, it’s different. They are much more emotional, so are drawn into relationships, confer on them great hopes… Often wounded lover can not adequately get out of the office romance. She starts throwing former lover letters, or even to call his wife. Often this results in the fact that she was forced to resign and look for another job.
Of course, sometimes the work can give birth to great love that sweeps away everything in its path. And if that still happens, then this feeling overcomes all obstacles and it ends, as it should be, with the wedding.