A romantic trip together with beloved man always seems truly cloudless and full of pleasure. But sometimes it turns into a joint trip for a couple of conflicts and could turn into a continuous series of reproaches and explanation of the relationship. However, diplomacy and prudence will help you avoid the most common causes for quarrels traveling.
Most disputes arise at the beginning: shall we call a cab to the train station or to choose airport. A common situation – one doesn’t hurry too much, and another wants to arrive at the airport three hours before departure, and both can not agree on the time of departure. As a result, the journey has not yet begun, but the mood of the both is already spoiled.
If you belong to that restless nature who always goes with time to spare, you should agree in advance with your second half at home on the departure time. Argues the position of the road situation, the traffic information at that time of day, possible delays in the supply of taxis. Can you honestly say that is very worried, you would be more easy to have a small amount of time left. The jerky is easy to miss the training camp not only fines but also the important details. Are you sure that passports and tickets must be your companion, and he is in complete confidence as to what documents are exactly in your bag.
The most reasonable – to agree in advance on who takes your passport and tickets. It is much easier when one person is responsible for these issues. The same applies to the guide books, keys and other small parts, the lack of which can permanently damage the journey both. Regardless of gender, one of the partners can be an ardent supporter of guided tours and outdoor activities, while others are more like the hours spent on the beach. In this case, differences are inevitable, and the best is still a pleasure to negotiate in advance of the trip.
If the preferences of both partners are very different from each other, the most optimal – meet the interests of both, uniformly filling the trip and excursion programs and recreational activities, and lazily beach pleasures. In the most extreme case it is possible to divide and – a water ski and the other on a sun lounger with a cocktail in hand enjoying the view of the sea. A common stereotype often draws a picture in which a woman tries to push all the contents of the cabinet into a crowded suitcase. But this feature in no way less sin and individual members of the stronger sex. The most important thing in this situation – do without the ironic tone, to try to argue the futility of some of the things in the upcoming trip.
However, if you see that your significant other does not notice if your arguments and tries hard to fit into a crowded suitcase fifth pair of shoes, it is better to give up and switch to another activity. In the end, it spoiled the mood of both – not the best start to journey together. Forget about the smartphone and tablet, bravely go into the “digital abstinence” mode – a feat on forces far not every vacationer. Still, check the news feed in your favorite social network, you can at home and on holiday it is necessary to catch every moment and enjoy an unusual and relaxed atmosphere.
Particularly boastful natures in your favorite gadget can only use the camera or videotape, but spread all captured directly to a network is not necessary. You have time to return home, and at the same time filter out slowly and will attach pictures special brightness.
Another thing, if you or your spouse on the need to periodically monitor the mail and respond to colleagues or clients. Here there is already grumbling can only aggravate the situation, because hardly your significant other while sitting in a deck chair, eager to resolve a performance problem. The most reasonable – to offer to set the time to check e-mail and your spouse to shift attention to other, more pleasant things. Known wisdom says that the best way to know a person with an unusual side – to go with him on a trip. However, diplomacy, the art of compromise and a willingness to take unusual point of view of the partner can make a vacation a truly comfortable for both.